A month or two ago, she had casually asked our son how he would feel if we got a divorce. He said no he will not like it, that he will not like us doing what he sees his two cousins and their parents do. Her sister's two kids get picked up on Friday's by their father to spend time with him for the weekend.
He was not feeling well the whole day. He had a temp of 101, sore throat, headache, stomach ache and general body ache. These are symptoms of the onset of the common cold. These same symptoms could also be manifestations of stress, as I'm told by people in the heath care field. I hope it's the former and not the latter.
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You'll be happier without her, believe me. I think your son ses his mother for what she is. Do you want custody? If so, document EVERYTHING. Print out this blog. You will need to show his mother should not have physical custody of your son becuase if she gets it she will make this kid's life a living hell. She WILL transfer her anger of you and her hatred of you onto him, and a little kid shouldn't have to put up with it.
ReplyDeleteI derive great joy at your misery.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm not even your wife. Figure that!
You are moron who richly deserves every minute of his misery.
ReplyDeleteWhy do you let your wife push you around like that.
ReplyDeletePut her in her place and tell her you'll buy a house when you're god damned good and ready.
yanno, maybe you should stop whining on the internets like a 169% beta and take back control of your own life instead of letting yourself be victimized by your wife.
ReplyDeletedude,
ReplyDeletethis is not about a house.
& taking this bullsh*t to your son (whether you or she does it, most likely both, I'm sure) is WRONG!
It is obvious she did it (ask your son about divorce), not because she wanted his opinion, but because she knew doing so would hurt you.
ReplyDeleteGet rid of her now.
This is sad for your entire family and no way to solve marital issues. There are always two sides to a story of which only one has been told. Starting this blog to inform absolute strangers of your situation seems very passive aggressive. Passive aggressive is very abusive. So is stonewalling and not communicating. It is emotionally abusive. I suggest you put your energy to counseling with your wife instead of blogging and engaging in this power struggle for another nine years. Again, there are always two sides to the story…good luck and best wishes to you and your wife..
ReplyDelete"yanno, maybe you should stop whining on the internets like a 169% beta and take back control of your own life instead of letting yourself be victimized by your wife."
ReplyDeleteHe's not just being victimized by his wife.. he's being vitimized by an entire system including the court, police, attorneys, laws, and society. If he were to 'take control' as you say, explain to us what would that entail exactly? A minute by minute breakdown. I REALLY want to hear this! Being aggrssive? Firmly telling her that she was going to do as she was told? HA While she laughs in his face because all she has to do is make a 911 call and the SWAT team is in the front yard in minutes? Threaten violence? Make ultimatums? He has no power TO make ultimatums with- she gets everything if she wants- he has nothing to bargain with. He, like every man is completely de-balled in a marriage, you fool. And by the way, all the 'alfa' males or dominant men I have ever known were just as fucked and all ended up in EXACTLY the same place because they all live under the same laws. Plus, I'm not sure why, but all the guys I've ever known that were dominant always have had ugly if not kind of plain looking wives.
There are always two sides to a story of which only one has been told. Starting this blog to inform absolute strangers of your situation seems very passive aggressive. Passive aggressive is very abusive.
ReplyDeleteWhy do you insist on blaming the victim? It is very clear from what he posted that he is suffering from marital domestic abuse? What exactly do you expect to hear from the abuser "on the other side" that will make what he suffered all right?
Come on. I really want to hear this.
It is very hard to break up a family. Even harder than being suffer in a bad family. but a stable single parent family is better than a crazy two parents family. A family is not a house. It should be a save place for a child. Not for adults who can take care or not want to take care of them. It should be a calm and secure place for a child to grow. Make it happen with or without her. When you have a child, you should start to take responsibility. I bought house for my child. Not for anyone else. I rent apartment for my child too. I only date guy who love my child more than he love me or himself. You will be very happy when one day your child grows into be a nice person who feels great about being a child to a single parent. Sorry about English. I do not speak perfect English, but my wonderful child does. Love and help your child grow, and if you think in that way. You will be strong when you need to. And you will do the right things. The best part is you will be very happy. Best wishes to your journey.
ReplyDelete@reality2008,
ReplyDeleteThank You.
Slot,
ReplyDeleteHave you considered that the divorce question could be a calculated attack on your psyche? The abuse you have suffered could quickly drive you to suicide. I strongly suggest you seek help; not from the blogosphere, but from pillars within the community that command the respect of your wife.
To all anonymous posters, if you could sign off with a name, I could directly reply to you more easily.
ReplyDeleteI do thank all of you for your support.